The new norm in America is being buried in debt, whether from mortgages, credit cards, personal loans, student loans, or business loans. The amount owed has risen dramatically. The average American in 2021 has an average personal loan debt of $16,458. Due to this, it is very easy to understand why Americans feel overwhelmed and anxious when it comes to their finances. The problem with debt and stress, in general, is it blocks us from seeing the options in front of us. We often feel trapped and paralyzed by the situation. If we genuinely want to get out of debt, we need to start by digging our way out, one shovel load at a time. There is no shortcut to getting out of debt. It takes hard work, dedication, and sacrifice, but it is absolutely worth it. The great news is being in debt does not have to become your identity. Here is a proven 6 step method to get out from under debt and begin to financially thrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Simply put, you can’t beat what you can’t define. The stress of debt can be crippling, and a very normal reaction to that stress is trying to avoid the problem. If we can’t see the problem, it doesn’t exist, right? Unfortunately, the problems we can’t see still hurt, but there is hope. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first step in overcoming anything is recognizing you have a problem. We need to be able to take responsibility for the financial situation we are in today. This does not mean that we need to feel shame for what we have done, but we need to recognize we can not continue on this path anymore. The more we are able to take responsibility for our past mistakes, the better our future will be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The next step is the fact-finding mission. We need to get all of our ducks in a row. Don’t worry about making sense of what you have at this point in the process. Just get all the information in front of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The natural question is, what does this look like practically? Here are a few items we need to “throw” on the wall during this stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once we have gathered this information, we need to get our damage report which for us is a credit check. A credit report shows the status of our credit activity and our overall standing from the lender’s perspective, which affects our rates and premiums and shows our potential problem areas. You can get a free credit report once a year from the three main credit bureaus: Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Essentially it is time to clear off the kitchen table and get organized! We want to get a net number per month of profit or loss. Once we have all that information, we can start developing a safety net and create a plan!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before we go on tackling our debt, we want to make sure we can cover whatever life throws our way. The goal is financial margin and what we don’t want is to have to go into more debt trying to pay off the debt we already have. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A general rule of thumb is we need to have $1,000 saved to cover unexpected expenses before we start tackling our debt aggressively. Now, of course, we can have more than this in our savings safety account, but I wouldn’t recommend any less. This safety net is not to be used monthly on everyday expenses. It is designed to cover unexpected costs, so if you are tempted to spend it, do whatever you need to do not to spend it! That can look like putting the money in a different account, having an accountability partner, not having “easy” access to the funds, etc…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This step is all about foundation repair so that we have proper support moving forward. The foundation we lay today will directly impact our results tomorrow. Life is stressful enough; let’s make our finances a little easier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once we have our emergency fund in place and have organized our debt, it’s time to initiate a plan to pay it off! We want to create good credit good habit<\/a>s such as budgeting<\/a>, automatic payments, using a low debt ratio, and being aware of the rates they charge. Doing this will allow you to dig yourself out of debt, but we still need a concrete strategy to get out of debt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n